“Trying to fall in love is like trying to make your heart beat backwards. It can't be done. I am already what you are. And so we don't fall in love; we simply notice that we are in love already, and always have been. We don't fall in love; it is the 'we', the 'me' and the 'you', that 'in-between', that falls away in love, revealing the intimacy of our own absence. We are all so deeply in love that we don't realize it.”

— Jeff Foster